Whether it’s the LG’s , the Aborigines, the Muslims or the Christians, it’s never right to give in to the never happies. The more they push and are encouraged to push ( esp with why not questions) , the more they will keep pushing; if it’s not more territory then more recognition ; if not LG then LGBTI and then what lGBTIPA ?
So, in the context here of the same sex marriage debate in Australia September 2017 -October 2017
To give in to such pressure is wrong
1. It distorts the balance in the family
2. It’s a sign of weakness in the leaders
3. Not everything wise comes down to a simple form of logic so we shouldn’t spend all day being Greek ( thesis – antithesis) in the hope the truth will magically turn up ( scientism ) or our parents or leaders give up.
4. It devalues the value of experience and wisdom in the leaders .It devalues their authority5. It’s not good for balanced resource use in the family: the experimenters use up the saved or always limited resources. Civil marriage agreements lose their needed financial and boundary focus on the risks couples take on with the adventure of an unknown batch of children.They and us working hard to provide for them
6. It doesn’t breed resiliency . Resilience comes with sound push back based on real boundaries real limits and real wisdom. The public purse cannot fund all these whims .
7. It doesn’t teach respect, Self acceptance is the first thing in the respect giving game . Jesus words. Luke 10:25-29 We are all best to learn to live with the limitations( and opportunities )of our uniqueness. To do so is to grow up mature and develop our unique gifts.
8. Its only likely to be good for the pushers if the mature family members agree to do it without pressure ,( NOT “you have 1 month to decide” )
9. With all their wealth, press , noise and now the law behind them , why would the pushers not push harder ?
Say no like you are a mature adult who will not be pushed around.
I thought resilience was a fallback not a pushback.
ReplyDeleteOtherwise, great stuff!
"1 month to decide" is probably too short.
Finding the children in charge can be a surprise to caring parents . As Dickens saw so well over 100 years ago there is more sentiment that substance in much that [passes for caring - esp now those remote from the action ignore their responsibilty to sort things on the jericho road . Stop the waste in false calls form those children still seeking attention and unaware of their own evil Http://ondewolf.blogspot.com
ReplyDeleteIt undermines the very idea of Marriage . That contract for family and how it can best function
ReplyDeleteThe organisers of this weeks expensive big bashing of Margaret Court this week will be disappointed because while they got a few puppeteers to repeat their foul words , many in the audienec will realize that this ACT is a desperate move by the never happies . Most Australians do not warm to Margaret's particular presentation but they are wonderfully fair and sensible to KNOW that those who pull anyone down have the problem.
ReplyDelete24th March 2023 And what do we all think of Mr Albanese and those who insist in making more noise than they already do ( THE VOICE ) . What this simpleton and his mates don't realize is that bullies are nice most of the time but they , unlike him, know that the bully has no power unless he can hit you with a stick , a stick that works better than the last one he tried to use against you .
ReplyDeleteeg some value you hold true ( eg that parliament only just works now if no extra time is allocated to hera more whingeing ) Albo like the rest of the country should be in tears. -- at this powergrab over our household .
Readers will note that this note was made in 2017 and yet another small group have got their way. yet we know many groups mentioned are still not happy and wake us spend HUGE amounts of our money and time so we have the justice of their cause pushed down out throats .
ReplyDeleteDe day hasn't come yet but when our children realise the cost of letting a bunch of adult wooses let these costly never happies undermine our sense od fairness , they will throw out this ineffective and expensive woosefest democracy.